Belle J's
ADC
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When my dad died I was
not aware of the fact that he had died because I was asleep. During this
particular night (when I was asleep and he had just died and I therefore did not
know that he had died) he came to me in a dream - he was standing beside me with
his arm around my shoulders and we watched my mom being wheeled into an
operating room. Then all of a sudden a doctor wheeled her back out, explaining
that there was no need for the operation and that she would make a full
recovery. Near the end of this dream my dad turned to me, gave me a hug and said
goodbye. Then I was awoken by a phone call from my mom saying that my dad had
died in a tragic sports accident a few hours earlier. At this point in time my
mom was extremely sick and had been reliant on my dad's care for quite some
time. Two weeks after he died, she made a miraculous recovery. I believe that my
dad came to me in my dream shortly after he had died in order to say goodbye and
assure me that I would not lose my mom as well.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
My dad told me
goodbye and gave me a hug. Then I woke up to learn that he had died while I was
asleep.
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated? I
heard his voice within my dream.
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
Yes.
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No.
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No.
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
I was held around
the shoulders and then given a hug.
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
Yes, my dad would have
done the same in real life.
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
Love was communicated.
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No.
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
He looked well and
healthy.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
It was in a dream, so
somewhat clear.
How
much of the deceased did you see?
All.
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
Appeared to be at
the age at which he died.
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Healthy, just as he
always was.
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No.
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
A few minutes.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
No difference to
the beginning or ending of any other dream.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Supportive,
comforting and full of love.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
Yes, my dad
provided visual imagery within a dream which indicated that my mom would recover
from her sickness and that I would not lose her as well. This did in fact happen
about two weeks after this experience.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was probably
real
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I felt comforted by
the fact that my dad had visited me in a dream.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Did
you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
Yes
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Happiness.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Yes
Did
you become aware of future events?
Yes
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
Yes
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
Yes
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
Yes
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes