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With Norman I found the computer on at 3 am when I let the dogs out. It kept going into safe mode-I had told him to let me know if he was okay before he died. There were pennies found (and still are) heads up a lot. I often feel his presence, but have never seen him. My 9 year old was only going on 2 at the time, but she claimed to see him a couple of times waving at her and then in her room while playing. Often can feel his laugh or a comment he would make.
With Gary I have not seen him. The 9 year old said she did at a railroad crossing as we waited for a train and he asked her if I was taking his death too hard and that he wished he was alive. He left and then ran through the train to the other side and ran after our car (he on the sidewalk) waving and calling us. He told her to be good and take care of the little sister and me. Then she saw him about 2-3 weeks later when we were at a stop sign waiting for traffic and said he was right beside the truck at my window right there beside me. He was sad I could not see him and left as we pulled away. My granddaughter talked to him each time. I heard her but saw and heard nothing else. Felt a little weird but not afraid. Also have felt I could hear what he would say a times-found a blouse on a rack, where we had both been 3 days before his death-this was a month after and felt he was saying that it was ugly and too old for me. I have found a small screw in my sandal that I had not worn for quite a white and later the same kind of screw at this place I found the blouse (same day in fact). He was always fixing things and leaving nails and screws around. He knew of Norm and that I found pennies and what they meant to Norm and I.
With the NDE, I was in
a very serious car accident and I was looking at my body laying in the car
really injured. I saw a meadow with yellow (not like yellow here) flowers
everywhere and blue sky and green grass (again not like I ever knew before)
Melanie, my friend told me I could not come and not to touch her and there
behind her was my grandmother and great uncle on a garden swing snapping peas
and waving to me to come to them. Melanie told me I had to go back and I did
not want to and so I stayed there and looked down to see others trying to awaken
me and get me out of the car. I did go back and still wished I could have
stayed. Melanie told me I had to go back and raise my 2 year old who was not
with me in the accident. This child is my only and she is the mother of the 9
year old granddaughter. My daughter has Melanie as part of her given name.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
But knew others
would not understand and would question my sanity or state of mental competency
Did not readily share with others
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
Thought I heard
Norm's laughter, thought I heard Gary's thought/word, saw and heard Melanie and
saw relatives
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
inside of me
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
similar
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
do not think anything
was around to hear at any of these times-no radio, television or conversation
really going on
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
While I am hard
of hearing no impairment was there at the time of the experience
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
did not see Norman,
did not see Gary-granddaughter did, saw Melanie and the relatives very clearly
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
did not see Norman,
Granddaughter described him as solid-but he ran thorough the train to the other
side to follow us and that he was solid in the last sighting but faded away and
she described what he was wearing and saying, in my NDE is saw them all as solid
and happy and dressed in bright colors.
How
much of the deceased did you see?
Norm none,
Granddaughter saw him in total first time and last time as he would appear
standing next to our truck window, I saw Melanie and relatives as totally
Melanie in front of me and relatives at distance sitting on the garden swing
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
YES
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Very healthy Norman
was very ill at death and had been most of life, Gary was healthy according to
granddaughter who saw him and he had been an alcoholic who was tragically
killed, Melanie was killed in a head on car collision with her car engine in the
driver's seat and she was decapitated and thrown out of the car-my grandmother
died in the hospital after a long fight with cancer and my great uncle died of
heat prostration and was very frail when he died
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
I really don't think so
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
With Gary-after he died
I smelled coffee (he drank it a lot but I have not been able to make or drink it
since he died) and I smelled cigarette smoke at Kroger's inside (no smoking in
store and no one close to me) a month or so after he died. With NDE I did not
smell anything I can remember
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Gary smoked a lot, but
tried to quit a lot-he made coffee all the time-every morning and drank it in
the morning with a neighbor man.
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
I was angry at myself
for not making Gary coffee the last morning of his life and left for work angry
at him (had words night before and that morning) also I always yelled about his
smoking around me.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
Not sure....I
had no coffee made or making at home at time I smelled it and Kroger has a no
smoking in store policy and no one was close to me at time
How long did the
experience last?
Very limited
time-minute or more
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
No
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
wish they
had-with Gary I keep asking for answers to millions of questions about us and
relationship and especially about the night he die and what really happened and
evidence against the people responsible
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was probably
real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
The feelings I had and also have read and heard of others experiences
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Uncertain
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
Want to be with my
loved ones and want to know it was real Want to see, feel them again
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
N0 comment
Norm-more reassured
he is okay, with Gary want to see him too, with NDE want to go back and wanted
to stay
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Want to go back to
meadow, miss Gary A LOT and miss others too
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
What other attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have?
want answers and want to be with him with Gary with Norm and Melanie I am more
at peace
Have you ever made such a compact?
Yes
With
Norm and Gary
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Want
to go to be with them, but not suicidal in any way
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Uncertain
No
one the NDE with Melanie-my friend and relatives NDE was what I experienced,
with Norm-just me, with Gary we heard the 9 year olds words and she told us
about it-she had 2 sightings-one with me and 3 year old sister-the other with
3year old myself and friend (33) and kids (5) (2)
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
Uncertain
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Meadow was BRIGHT
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes FEW
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
NO
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
None
smoker, drinker and do not take any drugs
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
Told
above
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes