Ashley's
ADC
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I had a dream. In my dream I walked into my house. It was strange because my house was surrounded by trees. He was sitting on my counter with his legs pulled up and he was very swollen. I asked him was he ok. I also asked where is your car. I said Tomas where is your car and he just shook his head. I had never seen his car before but I knew it was a small black car. I woke up the next morning and thought that was odd. When I arrived to work I got on my facebook to tell him to stop messing around in my dreams. What would make him think I would want to dream about him. It was going to be a joke. Once I got on his facebook I saw RIP. It went on forever. I felt sick. I thought no way so I googled his name. He was killed in a car accident. He side swiped another car and hit the trees head on. He and the passenger were killed. The two boys in the back were thrown from that car but lived. I knew all about this and the details before I found out.
When he comes to me in
my dreams he is very upset and angry. This last dream I had at first he was
happy then he left and refused to talk to me.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
Yes
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
Yes
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
His voice
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
he usually doesn't talk in my dream. the last time he was talking.
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
sounded the same
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
nope
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
Well I was
dreaming. What is my hearing suppose to be?
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
He kissed and hugged
me.
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
familiar
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
No
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
I was sleeping. I think
not.
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
The first time he
was very swollen. I knew there was something wrong. After that he looks normal
but he's mean.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
Solid
How
much of the deceased did you see?
All
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
The same age
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
At first he looked
dead. After his funeral he has looked normal.
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No, I was sleeping.
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
First time he was so
upset he couldn't believe what was going on. Then he was always kind angry. He
never talked to me. Always went into another room and just sat there. This last
dream we talked then he left and wouldn't come back.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
Yes. He let me
know he had been killed. I don't understand. I only really met him once and kept
in contact on facebook.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I thought about this a lot. I talked to people and got several different
opinions. But, how would I know that he died and how? I found out a week later
after his death.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was like wow why did
I dream about him last night.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
No
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
There is nothing good
about my experience. Tomas is dead. The worst is I don't understand what he
wants with me. He has a family and a fianc he cheated on. Shouldn't he be
haunting them????
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes I wish sometimes they would stop.
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
No
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
Yes
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
When
I woke up. I was like Wow I haven't talked to him in a while. I'm going to send
him a funny message saying stay out of my dreams. Then when I logged on Facebook
and saw RIP all down the page. I dropped my phone and got sick. I cried. I cried
for many months after this. I wasn't close to him. But why did I get this.
Shouldn't he go to his family if he wants to communicate with people.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Uncertain
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Yes
Did
you become aware of future events?
Yes
It
runs in my family. My mom knows when planes crash. I know about world events. I
dreamt the London train bombings. I knew Haiti was going to be destroyed. In my
dream I could describe the people the island and the flooding but I didn't know
it was going to be Haiti.
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
Yes
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
Yes
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes I told my mom and she said welcome to my world. I told 2 other people
and they didn't know what to say. They changed the subject.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes