Andre F's
Mother's ADC
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My father deceased on 25 April 2011, after having suffered from severe illness for 1.5 years. So my wife and I decided to take my mother, who had become a widow, with us on vacation to the isle of Capri, Italy. We ourselves are from The Netherlands (this becomes important later on in the story). In Italy my mother of course had her own hotel room, but her room was on the same floor as our room. On August 22, 2011 at around 5 pm suddenly there was knocking on our hotel room, followed by the excited voice of my mother. She asked us to open the door quickly. My wife opened the door and I saw my mother standing in the door opening, dressed very sloppy. Obviously she had put on the first clothes she had found in a big hurry (this way of dressing is something she would never do under normal circumstances). She told us her cell phone rang while she was resting on her bed and reading a book. When she looked on the phone display it said "ENGELENZENDER". This is Dutch for ANGEL SENDER or ANGEL BROADCASTER. Now this is very weird, to get a message in Dutch on the display of the cell phone while residing in Southern Italy. No telephone company with that name is known in The Netherlands, Italy or even Europe. None of her contacts stored in the cell phone have this nickname. Also, we don't know anybody with that nickname. Later we found out that my mother's other son (my brother) tried to call her from the Dutch Caribbean Island of Saint Martin at the time point her phone displayed "ENGELENZENDER".
This is just 1 of many
strange events happening to us after my father died, but it is the most striking
one.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
A couple of
seconds.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Not applicable
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
My mother felt excited,
like we did.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
I am a doubter and
would probably still doubt if my father appeared in front of me.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
No best or worst part.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Uncertain I started experimenting with EVP. The results are astonishing,
but I remain a doubter, probably because of my scientific background.
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Uncertain The possibility of an afterlife is now more acceptable to me.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
Yes
Telephone call was made by my brother. But if he calls, just his name shows up
on the display and certainly not ANGEL BROADCASTER. Could it be a higher power
interfered?
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Disbelief
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
1
person present during the experience
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes They seemed to believe it.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
We
had more experiences, also involving phone calls at the exact time (23:50 pm) of
my fathers death, some months after his death. Normally nobody calls that late,
at least not us. But when we picked up the phone there would be just static.
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
But
only in the months after my father's death. Phone calls and radios going on
spontaneously. Many things involving electricity.
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes