Amy T's
ADC
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My oldest daughter has had some issues and required hospitalization a considerable distance from home, and I needed to be available to drive back and forth for a period of about a week. This situation required me to take time off from my job which I started in June caring for a 5 year old girl with a chronic illness. I worked the 7pm to 7 am shift and the child had chronic insomnia, and when she would actually sleep at night we knew a trip to the Hospital was coming soon. The child had two dolls "M" and "E" and she would often express herself through them such as "M" has a headache. As she could not sleep it was not uncommon for her to talk to them periodically throughout the night.
I was off for one week and my ex-husband's mother who had been suffering from cancer had taken a turn for the worse and my plans to take my daughter up North to stay with my cousin were delayed, causing me to be off for another entire week. After getting through his mother's funeral and taking a day in between to try to relax, my daughter and I left for my cousin's house 6 hours away. It was a week ago today and I was driving when one of my co-workers called and told me of our patients death. I was in shock.
We had not seen each other for close to 2 weeks before she died, and I was so upset and sad that I was not there during her last days. I talked to her in her casket and apologized very softly for not being there for her and that I would miss her. After this I went to see her mom and dad and the first thing her mom said was "She was asking for you. She asked when you were coming back." This made me feel better and worse at the same time.
To get to the relevant
part of my story: I was lying in bed with my son and our dog, I do this
sometimes before he goes to bed. We were talking for a little bit, and the
nightlight on his dresser had been on since we laid down. The nightlight is a
little house without a roof that plugs into the wall my mother gave him. We had
stopped talking for only a short time when the light went completely out, I
raised my head and was facing toward a wall and we saw a very very faint glow it
pulsated/blinked slowly 4 times and it was about the size of a volleyball. She
was the first person that came to my mind and I said to my son "Do you see
that?" he said "yes" After that I had a feeling of extreme relaxation and
peacefulness come over me and knew it was her, she had come to tell me goodbye
and that she was not in pain any longer and that she felt peaceful.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
I did not see her
body but I saw her spirit (soul) that is my perception
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
There is a window that
could have provided a light source, but the blackness prior the glow d/t to
night light's sudden demise, is too coincidental I feel as if she used the
energy from the light to manifest herself as much as she was able to.
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
about 10 to 15
seconds
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
The beginning
was sudden (I suppose to gain attention?) and then the light just kind of faded
gradually
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
I felt her sense of
relaxation and peace, and that lasted quite a while at least an hour.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
only what I felt
if you consider that knowledge
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I was fully awake and my son saw it as well and he did not know her at all. But
she had asked me about him quite often which I found a little odd b/c I also
have a daughter that is more her age (8).
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I really can only
identify surprise and awe in the short period I was actually having the
experience
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I knew she was no
longer in pain and that she truly cared about me enough to let me know she found
peace. That made me happy for her and reinforced my belief in God, heaven and
life after death
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
There really was no bad
part, it was positive and comforting.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
It made my faith in God and heaven and an after life stronger
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
I feel honored to have been thought of not only by her but of heaven, angels,
God who allowed her to give me comfort. But in the back of my mind and having
had a previous experience I am fearful that the experience may have made me more
vulnerable to other spirits
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes
I asked my son if he saw the glow as it was blinking and he said yes. I asked
him the next day, also.
What emotions did
you feel during the experience?
Peace and relaxation
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
My 11 year old son
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
No
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
No
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did you see a
light?
Yes
yes a very faint
blinking light
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
My co-workers, they had witnessed some interaction between her and someone else
or others prior to her passing.
The child's parent's,
they stated that she had made her presence known at their house as well and
shared more than one experience they had as well.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything
else you would like to add regarding your experience?
I had sensed/seen
spirits in the clients home since I first started, nthing concrete really just
movement from the corner of my eye, and feelings of having company not
uncomfotable feelings. But their garage where the refridgerated meds were kept
made me a little anxious.
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
Uncertain
I take celexa for
depression/anxiety, and I take adderall for ADHD. both of which I take on a
daily basis.
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
Uncertain
I barely remember
(and was told) falling into a swimming pool when I was young (I was told I was
about 3 or 4) In my minds eye I see blurry and bubbles when I reflect on it but
that is all. I do not know how I fell or what happened before or after, and I do
not recall any other details of that trip to ohio to visit relatives. To my
understanding I was pulled out before I lost conciousness
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
I think I was able
to express myself full and am glad I used the form instead of email it gave me a
little more insight into my experience