Aaron L ADC
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It was about 10 minutes
into the funeral service and all of a sudden about 15 feet from the casket, and
approx. 50 feet from where I was seated, by the wall of the church a candle went
flying off of the candle holder, like someone had gone up to it and slapped it.
The service went on for about another 5 min. and from the opposite wall another
candle went flying off the candle holder like someone had slapped it. It was the
single most confusing and strange experience of my life. It was at that point
that I started to believe that there was life after death.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I have never seen anything like that, or heard anything like that from any other
person. For one candle to look as though it were slapped is perhaps a weird
coincidence, two times I know with no doubt that it was my grandpa trying to
communicate with us.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was shocked and
confused, prior to this, I believed in God but never thought that souls could be
still wandering around on earth. Or that a deceased person could somehow
communicate with the living.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
I guess maybe a
little bit, but i felt more uneasy about whether or not he made it to heaven.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
The best part, was
knowing that there is an afterlife. The worst part is fear for my grandpa, not
knowing whether or not he made it to heaven.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I now know that
there is an afterlife, not exactly sure how it all works, but I know that there
is.
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did the
experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife,
God, etc.? Yes I knew that there was without a doubt a afterlife, after that
experience.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
Yes
Before my grandpa
died, he said he would come back and go fishing with me. I thought it was silly,
now im not so sure.
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
Confusion, curiosity
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
There were
approximately 75 people at the funeral at the time
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
Most of my family also seen exactly what I did, and have the same memory of how
it happened.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything
else you would like to add regarding your experience?
no
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any
suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.
no